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Find Out What Kind of Frenemy You HaveYou trust your judgment. You’ve made hard calls in your career and your life, and you’re probably the friend people come to when they can’t see a situation clearly. But when you really like a man, that clarity disappears. He doesn’t text back when you expected. He cancels a date. Or you meet a perfectly nice man and feel nothing.
You don’t actually know what any of it means yet, but the voice in your head is certain she does.
I call her your Frenemy.
She’s made of every heartbreak, rejection, and criticism you’ve ever heard, replayed so many times she sounds exactly like you.
In 25 years of coaching, the smart, accomplished women I work with all ask me some version of the same question: how can I be this intelligent and still keep making the same choices with men?
Here’s the answer. Those choices were never really yours.
Everyone has a Frenemy, and sometimes she’s even right. The trouble starts when you stop questioning her.
Before long, she’s deciding who a man is before you’ve gotten to know him.
Each one talks you out of love in her own way.
The minute something doesn't feel right, she wants out.
She takes one thing a man does and uses it to decide what kind of man he is.
She's focused on one thing: “Am I feeling it?”
She takes something that happened before and uses it to predict what's going to happen now.
Take the 3-minute quiz and find out who's really making your dating decisions.
Find Out What Kind of Frenemy You Have